Ever stop and wonder whether it’s really, really necessary to rush about (almost manically, sometimes) each day – from point A to point B, zig-zagging through traffic to make that green light (which will inevitably turn red, just as you reach it, no matter how fast you drive), or chauffeuring the teenage kids (some of whom feel that they are entitled to parental limo service) to all their activities and social events?
Do we often impose imaginary deadlines or unreasonable time limitations on ourselves? Are we biting off more than we can chew? Or, more to the point, are we over-scheduling ourselves and perhaps need a refresher course on how to manage our time more reasonably?
Most importantly, are we cheating ourselves of the simple, serene moments (so very necessary for the nourishment of mind, soul and body) — like stopping to marvel at someone’s beautiful front garden, slowing down the car to gaze at a breathtaking sunset, stepping out to frolic in the snow (we’re never too old for that!), or taking a nice evening stroll just after dinner. Let the teenagers carpool with one of their friend’s parents or – here’s a novel idea – tell them to take the bus! We did . Back in the day. And, incidentally, we didn’t have cell phones back then, to call anyone in case of emergency.
Again, I digress.
Here’s another heatherfromthegrove anecdote. My husband rides a Harley (Fat Boy — the motorcycle, that is, not my husband!). I happily ride on the back of the Harley. We both love it. Riding, with the wind in our faces, well … the word that comes to mind is Freedom. When we ride, we feel free. It is the most exhilarating experience. Yet, so many times, we’ve had to go places and he would ask me (every single time): “Do you want to take the scenic route, or go the fast way?” Often – too often – I answered “The fast way.” Why? I felt some irrational need to hurry. I was cheating myself. My husband – a very, very sage man – knew that I was choosing the wrong path. He would always ask the question twice – the second time, he’d say “Are you sure you don’t want to take the scenic route?” The implication of the second question went right over my head. I was blinded by my own imaginary timing.
It should be noted that whenever we took the scenic route, we would ride with grins from ear-to-ear. Ahhhhhh …. the sights, smells, sounds…. simply delightful! Then we’d stop for a bite to eat and enjoy each other’s company. We took our time. And, the amazing thing was that we somehow managed to do all the things we had set out to do that day. Imagine that!
Fyi … now, we take the scenic route – every time. Life is too short for compromises.
So, if you ever have to choose between taking the fastest route or the scenic route….. always, ALWAYS take the scenic route.
You won’t be disappointed.
It appears that animals are often times more spiritually enlightened than we humans. Below, Bacchus (my “son”) takes a moment to gaze at the scenery (Bear Creek Canyon in the Santa Cruz Mountains – Northern California).